Showing posts with label health and nutrition. Show all posts
Showing posts with label health and nutrition. Show all posts

Thursday, February 28, 2013

Yummy Gluten-free "Pancakes", Or How I Get My Children To Eat Squash For Breakfast

I know I've been a little heavy on the recipe posts lately, but I'm just so excited about the way our diet has changed since the first of the New Year that I can't help myself! Every time I find a new way to cook veggies that my kiddoes will EAT, I just have to TELL someone!

My latest concoction is based on a 21 Day Sugar Detox staple-- the banana pancake. It's called a pancake because the banana makes it sweet-ish, but it's really more of an omelet. It relies on the egg to give it some texture and bulk.


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It's super fast-- way faster than regular pancakes-- and I can simply add ingredients to the bowl in approximate amounts as I begin to run out of batter (if I need more). And here's Judah's endorsement of the recipe!! Have you EVER seen such an enthusiastic grin on the face of a kid eating BUTTERNUT SQUASH before???

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Ingredients:

Cooked butternut squash or pumpkin (I roast mine in the oven, cut in half, flesh side down in about 1.2 inch of water, at 350 till soft)
bananas
eggs
cinnamon
nutmeg
ginger
cloves

In a ratio of 1:1:2 (so, equal amounts of banana and squash, with two eggs per banana) mash up the veg and fruit together and add eggs. Season to taste. Mix vigorously, pan fry in butter till brown.

NOTE: The lower the heat you use and the longer you cook it, the more pancake-like a texture you'll get. A hot pan and a quick browning gives you something puffy and light-- more like an omelet, but it will fall fast. I top with home-made whipped cream and strawberries.

YUMMY!

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

What Picky Eaters? Or, How My Children Ate Six Different Vegetables In One Meal

The rainy season has started with a vengeance here in Central Florida and this means I am making lots of soup. Because when it's pouring, grey and chilly I need lots of soup. LOTS of soup.

Here's a recipe for one of our recent favorites. I made a giant batch of it in my Vita-Mix yesterday and was thrilled to announce to the boys that they were eating SIX different kinds of vegetables for lunch. YUM! This recipe can be tweaked to make it Paleo/21 Day Sugar Detox/Primal/Gluten-free/Dairy-free/What-have-you. AS an extra perk, you're getting almost-raw veg! The essential thing is a really good blender. Everything else is negotiable! I'm going to give you instructions specifically for a Vita Mix blender, but it's pretty much the same for any other type, I imagine. This recipe is based on an instructional demonstration at the Vita Mix kiosk in Costco. Totally not kidding.



Healthy Chicken Tortilla Soup
(feeds about 6-8 adults for lunch, or 2 little boys for about a week)


1 carrot
1 stalk of celery
1/4 med head of cabbage (green, purple or savoy. the purple cabbage turns the whole soup a lovely pinkish color with bits of purple "confetti". or use spinach, kale, green leafy of your choice)
1/4-1/2 med onion
1 or 2 cloves garlic
1/4 sweet pepper
1/2 yellow or green squash
1 tsp cajun spice mix (or you can just sprinkle in a mixture of chili pwd and cumin)
cilantro
1 large tomato, cut into wedges
3-4 cups hot broth, or water and bullion cubes (I use chicken stock, because I usually have it on hand, but any veg or bone broth will work fine. I've also used plain hot water in a pinch)
2 oz sharp cheddar cheese
1/2- 1 avocado  (I usually chunk in a whole one because we love it and I'm not avoiding natural fats)
1/2c frozen corn
1/2 can black beans
cooked chicken breast
taco chips OR plantain chips
shredded cheese

Ok. The above list contains all the possibilities I've tried over the weeks that I've been developing the recipe. I add and cut out and substitute to please my palate, diet and available resources. Feel free to do the same! This recipe tolerates tweaking quite well.

1) Put carrot, celery, green leafies, onion, garlic, squash and any other veggies you want to experiment with into the Vita Mix. With the dial set to 3 (which is med-low-ish), pulse chop till you've got a nice even slaw-like texture. Or you can go for a smaller dice, too, if you prefer a soup with less texture. Basically, mash that puppy up how you like it.

2) Turn the dial down to lowest setting and toss in spices and tomato wedges.

3) Once the tomato is fully blended, and with the blender still going, pour slowly in (through that nifty little hole in the Vita Mix lid) the hot water or broth. Slooooowly.

4) Sloooowly turn up the speed to #7 (med-high). Toss the avocado and the cheddar in that nifty little hole. Now you just let it spin a bit of a while. The avocado and/or the cheese are going to make your soup get all nice and creamy. You can use either one or both (both is yummiest). Once you see the soup get nice and thick with some froth on the top, turn the dial back down to lowest setting.

5) Now you're going to add the beans and corn and possibly the chips. There is a raging debate in our house about whether the chips ought to be added at this point, or crushed in the bottom of the bowl with the soup ladled over top of them. Judah prefers the soggy-ish texture of blended up chips (*gag*) and I have to admit that the original recipe called for this. I, on the other hand, prefer my chips crisp and crunchy. So. You choose.

6) Up to this point you've had a lovely and dishwashing-friendly one-dish meal thing going on, but now you have to pour it all into a pot and warm it back up. The original recipe claims that you can serve it straight out of the blender, but I have never had success with that. I think probably because I added in the frozen corn and a bunch of extra veggies. Anyhoo. It's just as well, because while your soup is re-heating on the stove-top, you're going to chop that chicken breast into about four pieces, toss it in the Vita Mix and give it a whirl at the lowest setting. You should end up with a nice taco-grade shredded chicken. Scrape it out into the pot and get it all nice and hot.

7) Ladle over crushed chips (or not) and sprinkle with cheese (or not).

YUMMY!


Saturday, February 16, 2013

Grain/Dairy/Egg-Free Thai Chicken "Pasta"

I know I keep promising to post and explain our new wheat-free (and for me, sugar-free also) diet, but I just never seem to get around to it. Or any blogging at all, lately. But now it's Lent. Facebook is OFF for 40 days, so maybe this blog will get a little more attention.

This still isn't a post about our diet, but it IS a wonderful new Paleo-*21DSD-Friendly recipe that even my children ate fairly cheerfully-- even though it contains no less than THREE different veggies they normally have to be force-fed. SCORE! The recipe I made is loosely based on this one I found online.



Grain/Dairy/Egg-Free Thai Chicken "Pasta"

  • 1 med spaghetti squash
  • 1 lb. fresh asparagus, tough ends removed and sliced into 2-3" pieces
  •  garlic pwd, sea salt, marjoram, pepper, sage to taste (I just used what I had on hand)
  • 2 boneless skinless chicken breasts (or equivalent in other cuts)
  • olive oil for stir-frying
  • For the sauce:
  • 2 T. corn starch
  • 3 T. cold water
  • 1 1/2 cups coconut milk
  • 1 cup plain almond milk
  • 1/2 t. salt, or to taste
  • juice of 1 lime
  • 1/8 t. garlic powder
  • 1 tsp cardamom pods, crushed (you could probably just use pwd cardamom, if you don't have the pods)
  • red pepper, to taste ( I used my berbere that I use in my Ethiopian dishes, and I added about 2 tbs-- we like it SPICY around here)
  • 2 cups fresh baby spinach, washed and stems removed
The only downside of this recipe is needing to cook the spaghetti squash ahead of time. I tend to have them on hand-- we eat a lot of spaghetti squash these days. I bake mine at 350 for about 30-45 minutes. Scrape the "pasta" into a dish and season with salt, pepper and butter.

Bring a pot of salted water to boil and blanch the asparagus pieces for about two or three minutes. Drain and layer on top of the spaghetti squash. Cover and keep warm.

Heat a frying pan with enough olive oil to cover the bottom. Season the chicken breasts with spices listed (or play around with your own), and add them  to the pan. Cook for 3-4 minutes on each side, or until the breasts are golden brown on both sides. Remove the pan from heat and transfer the chicken to a cutting board. Cut the the chicken breasts lengthwise into pieces about 1-2" thick, then return the pieces to the pan and return the pan to the heat. Cook until the pieces are just cooked through, just 2-3 minutes more. Transfer to a serving dish and keep warm.

Now for the sauce. In a small bowl, stir together the corn starch and water until smooth. Set aside. In the same pan you used to cook the chicken, combine the coconut milk, almond milk, salt, lime juice, garlic powder, red pepper and cardamom pods over medium-high heat. With a whisk, stir briskly, bringing it just to a simmer.. Add the corn starch mixture little by little, and stir constantly until mixture thickens to desired consistency. (You might not need the whole 3 tbsp. I think it depends on the brand of coconut milk you use and how thick it is.) Turn the burner off, add the spinach and stir till the spinach wilts slightly.

At this point you have some options... The original recipe calls for you to add all the other ingredients to the pan and stir to coat with the sauce, but I've found that spaghetti squash doesn't respond well to lots of stirring around in sauce pans. Blech. So I took three dishes to the table; the dish of spaghetti squash with asparagus, the bowl of chicken pieces and the dish of sauce. Then I "assembled" everything on the plate: veg, chicken layered on top, sauce spooned over all. This also enabled me to separate everything for my OCD children who can't stand to MIX their food. Weirdos. Also, for the children's sake, I kept back the berbere and added it to the sauce pan after I had served their plates. They don't really do spicy.

D.E.L.I.C.I.O.U.S.

Let me know if you try it out :)






*That's the Twenty One Day Sugar Detox Diet. That's the thing I'm doing. I pinky promise, I really will post about it soon.

Thursday, January 17, 2013

What's in my fridge

A recent picture of my week's produce posted to Facebook has prompted this post. Here's the pic:



And here's how I plan to use each item, moving left to right.

Lettuces: salad, obviously. We eat of lot of salad. We also eat a lot of taco salad-- even though one of our children despises it.

Pears, bananas, carrots: These are all go-to snack foods in our family. Sometimes we dip the carrots in hummus. We usually have a lot of celery on hand for snacking, too, but last week it was $0.69/bunch so I stocked up.

Zucchini: I have two favorite ways to do my zucchini; 1) cut into spears and marinate it in balsamic vinegar, olive oil and garlic, and then broil it, or grill it (if we're grilling our meat that day), 2) slice and saute with sliced onions in butter, salt and pepper.

I should probably stop here and warn you that a lot of these ideas are going to involve the phrase "with butter". Possibly also "with lots of butter" and occasionally, "with copious amounts of butter". Also insert the word "bacon" into any of those phrases. We eat a lot of butter and bacon with our veggies. I have discovered that natural fats are a lot healthier than some of the alternatives that often end up in our food. More on that another time.

Chard: I slice it and fry with bacon, or make a wilted greens salad like this one (only, scratch the sugar), or add it to smoothies or scrambled eggs.

Cilantro (hidden between the bunches of chard): This goes in everything. I add it to salads, dressings, salsas, guacamole, chicken salad, you name it.

Tomatoes: salsa (mostly) and a side dish/salad I make with chopped cukes and tomatoes, fresh basil, cilantro, balsamic dressing and feta cheese. Delish!

Mangoes: smoothies, breakfasts and snacking.

Limes: I add limes to my drinking water. I also use it to flavor meat, salsa, dressings and etc. They are 7/$1 right now, so we're eating a LOT of limes :) Good vit C!


Cassava (roots): These are a new find for our family and I am HOOKED. There are so delicious! I found a recipe that I love and then promptly lost it, but a friend is going to show me how to make authentic Cuban roasted cassava, so I'll post that when I learn. The recipe I used (more or less): par-boiled chunks, add lime/garlic/butter sauce, pan-fry.

Cukes: We eat a lot of cukes. They are a frequent snack food (plain, salted, dipped in hummus), often added to our lettuce salads, with tomatoes in the salad I mentioned above, in sushi, topped with a tuna salad (with black olives) and avocados.

Sweet peppers: salsa, mostly. Also fahitas, stir-fry and various other dishes as seasoning. I don't like them raw, though. Bleh.

Yellow squash: Besides sauteing with butter and onions, my current favorite thing to do with yellow squash is a sweet and sour chicken recipe that adds julienned yellow squash and carrots. It's a perfect one-dish meal I can get onto the table in less than 30 mins. We've been eating a lot of this lately!

Avocado: Oh man. We also eat a lot of avocado. Guacamole is on our table at least two or three times a week. Judah and Jamie just eat it plain-- right out of the shell, with salt. I add it to salads and soups, too.

Oranges and grapefruit: These are so. cheap. right now. We eat them every morning for breakfast, snacks and lunches.

Green beans: fried, with bacon :) Also in soup.

Snap peas: raw, for snacks; or stir-fried in butter, with garlic and lime.

Spaghetti squash: (it's back there, but you can barely see it) I bake one of these babies every week and keep a tupperware of it in the fridge at all times. It's a perfect quick side dish, or rice/pasta substitute. To re-heat, I fry it in butter with salt and pepper. I have a couple of recipes that dress it up more than that which I use occasionally, but they're a little time-consuming. For breakfast, I sometimes make a spag-squash fritter. I'll throw a little into a dish, grate in a little apple and a little carrot, break in an egg and add some coconut flour to thicken. Fry it like a pancake (copious amounts of butter). You can add maple syrup, or just eat it plain. A good way to get some veggies into your breakfasts.

Butternut squash: This is one of my favs! Another one a try to bake every week and just keep on hand in the fridge. Some of the puree I freeze in an ice cube tray for smoothies (use this recipe; but sub the frozen squash, use plain yogurt, coconut or almond milk and sweeten with agave or honey). I also make "pumpkin" muffins (with coconut flour), pancakes (with almond flour), or reheat in a saucepan with butter and salt. Sometimes I get original and chop it raw and then roast it with butter (!!), and seasonings.

Potatoes: I'm trying to cut back a little on the white potatoes, because of the starch, but we sure do love them! Baked, fried, roasted, mashed-- you name it!

Onions: I figure these are pretty self-explanatory, right? I mean, everyone eats onions...

Spinach: I cheat and pay extra to buy this pre-washed and bagged because it's so nice to have to add to random dishes-- soup, salad, smoothies, scrambled eggs. I was even adding it to Jamie's oatmeal a while back when I was having trouble getting him to eat veggies any other way.

There you have it! Do you have any great veggies ideas to share??

You may have guessed by now that we have moved to a wheat-free (and mostly grain-free) diet recently. I want to blog more about this at some point, but that will have to wait for another nap time :)





Monday, March 14, 2011

More Coupon Questions

So you coupon-ing queens out there... Here's my grocery list for this week, and it's pretty typical. What types of things do you see that y'all could find coupons for? If this is generally how my list looks from week to week, does it seem like it would be worth my time to research coupon-ing more? Or am I right that the way we eat just doesn't fit well into the whole coupon-ing thing?

Produce:
apples
baby carrots
lemons
cilantro
bananas
cantaloupe
spinach
cherry tomatoes
tomatoes
spring greens
peppers

Dairy:
milk
eggs
cheddar
parmesian
feta

Dry Goods:
wine
english muffins
rice
white flour
coffee
olive oil
peppercorns

Meat:
Chicken breast
hamburger
bacon


We rarely eat cereals, pasta or crackers. What types of things do you find are good to coupon for? And what stores have the best options for those "cash-buck" type deals?


Wednesday, January 5, 2011

(almost) Pain Free

On Monday, I went barefoot all day for the first time in five years. And I felt GREAT.

Yesterday I spent three hours grocery shopping, in flat sneakers, with all three kids, and when I came home I felt GREAT.

Five years ago I went to see a physical therapist with crippling pain in my hips and low back. And when I say crippling, I mean that on several occasions I would lie down to rest in the afternoons with a dull ache and be unable to stand upright when I went to get up a few minutes later. A couple of times I had slide out of bed to the floor and crawl from my room to a low stool or chair in the living room to pull myself upright-- our bed was too high for me to reach the top to boost myself up. Many, many times my hips would bring me to tears in the evenings after a day of chasing toddler Sofi around.

The physical therapist helped me immeasurably, and also diagnosed a short leg-- my left leg is 3/4 of an inch shorter than my right. (*pause for Laurie B. to laugh hysterically*). She got me back on my feet and I wore orthotics for the next five years. Every day. Every pair of shoes. I never went barefoot for more than a couple hours-- hip pain sending me running for my orthotics every time. Exercise was key. Even a week of no exercise would send me into a spiral of worsening tension and pain.

Fast-forward to this past year. Pregnant, moving across country, highly emotional first few months. No exercise. I really didn't exercise AT ALL in the second trimester. Swimming helped keep things fairly flexible and loose in the last trimester. But after pushing out a ten-pound-plus baby, all hell broke loose in my joints and muscles. Back pain, knee pain, pinched nerve, bruised rib. I felt like I was walking around in the body of a seventy-year-old woman-- no offense to seventy-year-old women!

And then my mom gave me this book for Christmas. The difference is drastic. Miraculous, almost. I'm serious here. Anyone who's suffered chronic back pain will understand when I say that I crawled around on the floor playing trains with Judah yesterday for an HOUR and felt great afterwards.

So that's my testimonial. It's taking me SO LONG to get this written that I want to stop here for now and publish. I'll write again and tell a little bit more about what this method is all about and how it's working...

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Request

I desperately need some new recipes. Not the fancy, company-coming-over, hours-in-the-kitchen kind. I need some new basic, dinner time, get-food-on-the-table-asap kind. Like Chili. Or macaroni and cheese. Only not those. And I'm particularly looking for things that are fairly cheap and healthy-- no canned stuff or packets of seasonings and such. Also, veggies are good. Got any ideas? When you're pressed for time and need an idea do you have a favorite website you head to? What's your family's favorite meal?

I've been using www.recipezaar.com for years now, but I'm starting to get bored. Also, they do tend to use a lot of "short-cuts", like canned soup and flavor packets. I recommend it, though. Have any of y'all tried it before?

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

My Way Better Than Oatmeal Recipe

I really hate oatmeal. Really. Hate. Oatmeal. So does J. In fact, we just pretty much didn't eat it ever until we had kids. But then, oatmeal just seems like one of those things you feed kids. Like pbjs. What kind of parent lets their kids grow up without pbj or oatmeal? I ask you.

So I began to fix oatmeal. And found it wasn't quite as bad as I had remembered, but still not my favorite. J still hated it. Then enter my mother, with all the new research on soaking your grains to get better nutrition and all that. So I started soaking my oatmeal over night. Definitely made it taste better. And then. Last week. My sister revealed to me a whole new world of oatmeal. An Oatmeal Nirvana, if you will. Oatmeal from Heaven. Here is that recipe--complete with some minor changes to make it my own:


Way Better than Oatmeal

Soak oatmeal overnight in enough liquid to cover. You can use 1) water with a tablespoon of vinegar, 2) whey, 3) yogurt, or 4) kefir (my personal favorite).

In the morning, heat up about 1/4 stick of butter in a large frying pan (cast iron works great) till sizzling. Add sloppy, soaked oatmeal. Smoosh it up around the pan till the bottom of the pan is covered and sprinkle with salt. Stir and flip occasionally, adding more butter when needed, until the oatmeal is cooked into small, crispy chunks. Basically, you want to treat it like scrambled eggs.

Serve hot, plain or with a trickle of maple syrup.

You will never think about oatmeal the same way again!

Friday, October 16, 2009

Get your outrage on, ladies

I know that many of my readers do not share my political views, but seriously, this is just plain wrong. Watch and be outraged.





So basically, the insurance industry is resorting to pretty much making stuff up in order to deny coverage. "We'll only cover you if you get sterilized". WTH???

So tell me again why public health insurance-- even with the possibility of waiting periods, long lines, restricted coverage and all the other touted "risks" is any worse? (never mind, don't tell me, i don't really want to get into an argument, i just want to vent) At least then I'll have the option of voting out the the "bureaucrat" that supposedly stands between me and my doctor. Right now it's a faceless corporate lawyer between my doctor and me and my only recourse is to sit and fume....

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Apparently boys need a lot of protein

Ever since Judah gave up his morning nap (shortly after turning one) he has a melt down almost every morning between 9:30 and 10:00. It's ridiculously predictable. I'll be going along with my morning routine and Judah will be playing quietly and then all of a sudden, all hell breaks loose! There are tears, tantrums and whining. Oh! the whining! What to do?

And then I read Suzanne's post about diet and nutrition for boys-- specifically about a growing boy's protein needs-- and it began to dawn on me that perhaps Judah was simply not getting enough protein for breakfast in the morning. Our normal breakfast consists of yogurt (plain, low-fat, with a little honey) and fruit. Fairly low protein compared with the levels she was recommending.

So we began to experiment! The first few days Judah got an egg or other protein source as soon as I started to notice the crankiness. It worked! Amazing. The whining and tantrums would subside back into normal behavior. But that didn't necessarily mean it was about protein in particular. Perhaps he was just needing a mid-morning snack.

Next step was to see if we could forestall the meltdown completely by simply adding protein to his normal breakfast. J fixed him three scrambled eggs for breakfast. He ate them all. No mid-morning snack, no meltdown. Hmm. Persuasive.

But the high school scientist in me wanted more proof. Next day we went with the traditional yogurt and fruit. Meltdown began promptly at 10:00. I force-fed him goldfish and cheezits for 45 minutes, attempted to distract him, and then tried to feed him lunch a little early-- which he emphatically refused, demanding to be put to bed. For a nap. Forty-five minutes early. That is unheard of.

That was yesterday.

Today he ate two pancakes and four scrambled eggs for breakfast. No meltdown. Ate a small lunch (beans, carrots, applesauce) and went straight to sleep, no fussing, no whining. He has now been sleeping for two and a half hours.

I am a believer. We will need to buy some chickens.



Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Pit to whaaaa???

I tell you what, people. Just when you think you've heard the worst of the worst, you get deeper in the doo-doo (pardon my french) of our medical system in this country. What I am about to tell you in this post is going to send most of you through the roof in outrage. At least, those of you that I know are reading.... you lurkers out there might even be OBs for all I know... But that's another rant for another time.

The phrase is "pit to distress". Here's what that means, according to Jill, at Keyboard Revolutionary:
...the practice... entails administering the highest possible dosage of Pitocin in order to deliberately distress the fetus, so a C-section can be performed.

I know this sounds ridiculous. Barbaric. Surely not in America. But I kept reading. I read Nursing Birth's description of her interaction with a Dr who ordered her to "pit to distress":


Ladies and gentleman the account that you have just read is called “Pit to Distress” whether the pitocin order was actually written that way or not. What Dr. F gave me was a VERBAL ORDER to increase the pitocin, regardless of contraction or fetal heart rate pattern, until I reached “max pit,” which he acknowledged would hyperstimulate her uterus. This goes against our hospital’s policy and the physical written order that this doctor signed his name under. However, like some other doctors I work with, none of that mattered to him. What he wanted was for me to “crank her pit” regardless and from my experience with this doctor, at the first sign of fetal distress we would have been crashing down the hallway for a stat cesarean!



I read the nursing textbook page (Jill--Unnecesarean posted this excerpt from it in her article on the subject) that instructs a student nurse in how to deal with a order given to "pit to distress":



http://www.unnecesarean.com/storage/pittodistress.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1246941864328


I read this article about changing birth procedures that discusses the advisability (hah! ya think???) of discontinuing this practice. Someone (sorry, can't keep track of who sent me where) posted this excerpt:

"Pitocin is used like candy in the OB world, and that's one of the reasons for medical and legal risk," says Carla Provost, assistant vice president at Baystate, who notes that in many hospitals it is common practice to "pit to distress" -- or use the maximum dose of Pitocin to stimulate contractions.
Please, go read. Inform yourself. Get mad. Blog about it. Start a Revolution!!!!!

Thursday, April 9, 2009

Judah's allergic reaction

In case you ever wondered, this is what a moderate allergy to cephalosporins (a group of antibiotics) looks like. Sorry for the grainy quality. It's hard to get a squirmy toddler to stand still even when he isn't covered with blotchy red bumps! I will spare you pictures of the diarrhea.







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Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Back to Birth

An article I found recently on one of my new favorite birth blogs and an email from a friend asking for some info for a friend of hers got me all fired up about birth again this week. I've been collecting some links in a draft post for a while now and now I would really like to share them with you. Those of you who are new-ish readers and don't know me so well should be warned. I'd a radical about natural childbirth. These articles may clue you in on that....

You should be grateful


Cesarean Death stats

US Neonatal Death Rates

One woman's story reminded me so much of my births, I wrote this email to her and received her permission to link to her stories.

I just read your story of the birth of your precious daughter, Aurora Miranda (and then two sons), linking in from The True Face of Birth. I just wanted to say, what a beautiful, beautiful story and would you mind if I linked in as well? My first child was a posterior, asynclitic birth, just like your second son. And I, also, had the blessing of a homebirth and a midwife who trusts the birth process. After 35 hours of labor, my daughter was born with apgar scores of 9 and 10, a 15 inch head, a minor skid mark that didn't need stitching and no unnecessary interventions. I midwifed for five years in a state where homebirth is illegal and met many women like the those who assisted at your second birth-- women who were willing to risk all kinds of legal ramifications because they believe that every woman should have to opportunity to do this mighty thing-- give birth in her own way, in her own time and on her own terms. I am so glad that you were able to experience this. There is truly nothing like it.


Her first (medical) birth

Her first home birth

Her second home birth

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Advice for new dads and dads-to-be (pass it on, ladies...)

(Originally posted in Sept, 2007. Re-posted now as part of "yikes-we-have-a-wedding-in-five-days-how-will-I-ever-find-time-to-blog!-week)


Having just gone through "new parenthood" again I wanted to give all my expectant friends a "heads up" about something that I wish someone had mentioned to us before Sofi was born. We were in a kind of difficult situation -- new town, school for hubby, home with baby for new mommy, still in the process of making friends and finding fellowship at church as well as being fairly newly married! But still, I think it's similar for all new moms. I totally wasn't expecting the emotional roller coaster caused by the post-partum hormones. It's pretty wild. This time, with Judah, it wasn't so bad--second time around, knew what to expect, more stable environment, etc. But with Sofi I ended up in a severe depression after months of struggling on my own. By the grace of God and through the intervention of a godly woman at Cov Pres I joined a women's bible study and discovered that what I was going through was totally normal and was given some help in managing all of it.

Now, you may have already heard all about this from your moms or other women in your family, and I'm sure you men have already noticed that your wives (whether still pregnant, or newly postpartum) are much more tender than usual. But I wanted to post about it and hope to reassure some of you who may feel like the baby ate all your wife's common sense and stability on the way out ;)

She's probably going to be doing a lot of crying in the next few months. Maybe even a LOT of crying. For totally dumb reasons, and sometimes for no reason at all!

I would sometimes sit down to nurse Sofi and as soon as she'd latch on, I'd burst into tears. Jeremiah would come rushing over and ask what was wrong and I'd say something like "Bwahahah... you left your socks on the floor again!!!!!" or "I"m a terrible mother and she hates me already, I just know it, look how she's glaring at me....!!!" or "I'm going to be fat and exhausted for the rest of my life and I hate being a mom....!!" or sometimes just, "I don't knoooooooowwww!!!!" A friend of mine says she would look at her daughter nursing and just sob over the fact that "someday she's going to grow up and go away and leave me and I'll never get over it!" Some days I'd alternate between euphoria and severe depression.

Another aspect of the emotional thing was feeling really vulnerable all the time. I went from being a fairly capable, responsible adult to being afraid to walk down the stairs holding the baby. It would take me all day to build up the nerve to face taking Sofi grocery shopping. With Judah we went over to a friend's house for supper when he was two weeks old and the effort required to just get two kids in the car and leave my home (!!!!) was tremendous. We got there (all of five minutes away) and I just had to sit down and cry for a few minutes. Minor violence in movies that I wouldn't have blinked at a year before left me with horrible nightmares and images in my mind that plagued me for days. Pain was something I could NOT handle. Even a paper cut would have me down on the floor doing the Bradley breathing! One day I caught my fingernail on a hook of my nursing bra and it bled a little and I almost passed out.

Thinking logically and in an orderly manner will also be a thing of the past. Your wife may normally be a model of organization and punctuality, but while she's nursing don't be surprised if you find the peanut butter in the freezer or get a raw potato in your lunchbox instead of the spaghetti you were promised (not telling...) Late will now be the new "on time" and the new late is "never". And don't stress over it, because even if your wife doesn't exhibit this particular symptom, odds are the little monkey is going to have a blowout five minutes before you leave for church anyway.

Of course all women are different, so your wife may not be quite as loopy as I was. But we're also all alike in many ways. And something along these lines is pretty common in all women. The intense experience of labor and the life-changing realizations that occur in those first few weeks of mommy-hood are probably going to leave your wife gasping. The best thing Jeremiah does for me is to allow me to work out all this emotional stuff without freaking out over it himself, and without taking my "freak outs" too seriously. He knows that even though one night I'm sobbing over my total inadequacies as a mom to two kids, the next morning I'll be delighted with my beautiful children again. And even if I go totally bonkers over the socks that have been on the floor every night for six years of married life, it's only "the hormones talking"-- although he's smart enough not to say that at the time ;) I highly recommend that you get a mental image of yourself as a padded room in which your slightly psychotic wife can safely hide away for a few months till her body chemicals level out a bit. (Which I promise will happen!!)

If you can have the grace to cover your wife's instabilities for a few short months, she will adore you for it forever--witness my feelings for Jeremiah. He has truly dealt with me "as with a weaker vessel" these four months since Judah's birth and been so patient with my weakness in this area. I wish the same for all my expectant friends!!

God Bless!!

Monday, March 16, 2009

Not Me Monday-- the Flu edition



Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.

This is all for Laurie!

No way did I take (only slightly) wet pants out of the hamper to put on a toddler who'd pooped out his last clean pair of pjs at 3 am. Not me. And it certainly wasn't me who'd looked at the pile of dirty laundry at 11:00 the evening before and decided that it could wait till tomorrow. Decided that sleep was more important than clean clothes. As were the hours of blog-surfing that led to this 11th hour realization. Huh-uh. That was not me.

I totally did not feed my children fish sticks one day and hotdogs the next because I was too sick and tired to cook. And no way, No Way, did I tell my daughter that yes, pickles and saurkraut count as vegetables. I would NEVER. Especially not me, because they were sick too, and really needed good nutrition and my mama taught me better than that. Uh-HUH.

I absolutely washed my dishes more than twice in the last three days. Absolutely.

There is not a small spot of blueberry-colored poop on my couch that I am ignoring because it basically the same color as the couch and who can tell? It's not blueberry-colored because that's the only thing poor leaky-hiney over here will eat right now. Nope. Not my couch.

I am totally not typing this while wearing the clothes I wore yesterday. And slept in. Maybe even two nights. I wear sexy-mama pjs to bed every night. Because I am just that kind of woman. The kind of woman who can changes blueberry diarrhea diapers at 3 am in sexy-mama pjs.

I could go on. But I imagine you'd rather I didn't.



Wednesday, March 11, 2009

And another one down, and another one down and another one bites the dust!

This refrain has been ringing in my ear all day. That's right, folks, the F. family is on the mat again and the fourth round goes to... the Flu again!

*ding, ding, ding*

Judah is out cold with diarrhea, ear infection, coughing up bloody mucus, fever. Jeremiah is just coming around after two days of coughing, fever and congestion. Sofi is bloodied but unbowed with merely a runny nose. I am down for the count with mild fever, chills, congestion, wracking cough (wracking, people, I feel like my chest is in a vise grip held by a giant who occasionally gives me a good hard shake, just for kicks) and sore back due to propping myself up every night so I can breathe.

I know, I know. Enough with the corny and ridiculously incorrect sports metaphors. Sorry. Gotta get my laughs anywhere I can these days. Seriously though, can you believe this? In nearly eight years of marriage we have NEVER, I repeat, NEVER been this sick. Not even the time J almost died while I was busy giving birth to Sofi. (ah yes, there's a story there I may tell one day...)

This time I'm trying out Rachel's Olive Leaf treatments. I'll let you know how it goes and I'll link to her post about it if she let's me know that's ok. (*hint, hint* Rachel?) Sue said it worked wonders for Violet last time, so we're gonna give it a whirl.

For now I leave you with this thousand-word representation of what we all feel like today:






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Friday, February 27, 2009

Yeast Infections: Info for Nursing Moms and Women in general

I have a few friends who are new moms or will be soon and so I wanted to turn an old email into a post for easy reference. I send this info out to every new mom (at least, when I remember, I do). I've also had occasion to refer to it several times for friends with yeast infections that aren't nursing or pregnant as well. It's basically a compilation of weeks of research on the pain I was having while nursing Judah during his first few months of life. After a ridiculously easy time nursing Sofi, Judah's nursing issues were quite a shock. Read on...

As some of you know, Judah and I have been dealing with some issues in our breastfeeding journey. We recently finally pinpointed the cause of the gas/pain/bad latch habits/etc that have been plaguing us. We both seem to have contracted a systemic yeast infection. Having gone through over a month of all this mess before figuring out what was wrong, I wanted to give you all a "heads up" about yeast infections-- how to recognize the early symptoms and how to treat it before you end up with all the trouble we've had. All of this info is stuff I've gleaned from internet research and talking to midwives and lactations consultants. I've included some links to the sites I found at the end of this email, in case anyone's interested.

Some interesting facts about yeast:

All humans have harmless amounts of yeast (actually a fungus) in their bodies. It tends to live in the mouth, bowels, skin, and, in women, the vagina — basically it thrives in warm, wet environments

It is only when the yeast overgrows that it becomes a problem. As pregnancy progresses, a woman is more likely to have an overgrowth of yeast. At birth a vaginal overgrowth of yeast can be transferred to the baby, and the baby can end up with thrush (an oral yeast infection).

Babies get yeast infections easily since their immune systems are not fully developed

When a woman is breastfeeding, she can get a yeast infection on her nipples and sometimes even inside her breasts.

Breast or nipple yeast is rarely a problem for the nonlactating women. However, in a breastfeeding woman, the change from a dry to a wet atmosphere can create favorable conditions for yeast overgrowth.

Diagnosing Yeast Infections:

White patches in baby's mouth: This is the most commonly known manifestation of a yeast infection. HOWEVER, not all yeast infections will include this symptom. In our case, Judah's white patches were all under his tongue and weren't visible until the infection grew up and out over his lower lip. Some babies never get the patches at all.

Nipple pain: Okay, let's talk about nipple pain. This is NOT the normal soreness of skin and tissue that goes along with "getting used to nursing", or even the more severe pain of a bad latch. We're talking intense pain here. It's been described as "glass being ground into my nipples". To me it felt like someone was sandpapering my nipples as he nursed. In addition to the surface pain, there is often a deep muscles pain--extending even into the back and shoulders. Sometimes it feels like a pulling sensation, deep in the breast tissue. Here's what really sets it apart from other nursing issues: it will hurt even when you're not nursing. You'll be walking along, minding your own business and then suddenly it feels like someone just knifed you in the breast. This kind of pain is never caused by normal nursing or even the worst of latch problems. It means a yeast infection that has spread to your milk ducts and it needs to be addressed immediately (if not sooner). Another dead giveaway is if the pain reduces throughout the feeding. Latch pain will not decrease as you nurse--it gets worse the longer the baby mangles your nipples.

Dry, shiny nipples:
Basically that says it all. My nipples looked like they had vasoline spread on them and they were bright pink--not the normal brownish pink of the rest of the areola.

Open sores on nipples: This one's a bit tricky. Open sores can be caused by a Y.I. or they can also cause one in turn. If you have open sores that you know are caused by a latch problem, watch out! you might be at risk for a yeast outbreak. If you have developed open sores without dealing with a latch problem, they are probably being caused by a Y.I.

Excessive gas in mother or baby: Now we all know that babies get gas. It's a fact of life. But if you notice that you are feeling gassy as well--especially if it's mostly in the evenings and doesn't seem to change if you modify your diet to exclude gassy foods--you should suspect a yeast infection is the cause.

Baby throwing up: Again, spitting up is a fact of life for babies, but in this case we're talking major stuff. Judah threw up chunks of cheesy stuff the size of the end of my thumb! Not pretty--somewhat disturbing--definitely yeast.

Weird nursing habits in baby: A baby with a sore mouth from yeast will often not feed well, coming off and on throughout the feeding, sometimes with a clicking/ sucking sound. Judah was always fussing through feedings--pulling the nipple, shaking his head and that weird clicking noise...


The Diaper Rash From Hell: Again, we're not talking about a normal diaper rash here. This might include multiple red bumps, pus-filled bumps, or a scaling pattern on the infected skin. In addition, the rash may extend along the pubic area and onto the lower part of the abdomen. Another big clue: A yeast rash tends to hang around for more than two days and doesn't respond to any traditional diaper rash treatments. It also usually shows up in the skin folds of the groin area.

Roving Pain: Another way to distinguish Y.I. pain from other nursing issues is that it may affect one breast, then move to the other--and back and forth several times. If you notice that one breast is more painful and then a few days later it's the other breast that hurts worse, it's probably a Y.I.


Treatment Options:

Okay, I'm no physician, so this is no substitute for consulting a professional (which I highly recommend--midwife preferably, so you can get info on the natural treatments), but here's what I've had recommended to me by a couple of people and a bunch of websites. I've listed things in order of severity and potency. If you catch the infection soon enough, the vinegar rinse might be enough. If the thing's been going on for a month or more (me!!), you'll have to move on to the Caprylic Acid and the Poke Root.

Vinegar Rinse: Dab a vinegar and water solution on your nipples after every feeding. I also have been putting vinegar in Judah's bath because he's broken out in yeast in all his cute little fat rolls. The vinegar changes the pH of your skin enough to kill the yeast topically.

Baking Soda paste: Same thing as the vinegar rinse--same effect on the pH

Yogurt
Acidopholus
Clotrimizole
Pro-Biotic Complex
(baby can take this, too)
Caprylic Acid
Poke Root


Ask a midwife or doctor for dosage recommendations for all of the above.


In addition the following things were recommended:

Boil or bleach all bras, shirts, towels, etc (anything that touches your nipples) daily

Bra-less is best since it allows the maximum of air-flow

Swab your breasts with a vinegar and water solution after each feeding

Boil everything that comes in contact with babies mouth daily and replace all pacifiers weekly.

Sterilize the tub with bleach after each bath


Please forward this email to anyone you think might be interested.

Good luck and I hope none of you ever need this info!!

Elisa




http://www.babycenter.com/refcap/baby/babyills/babyrash/10913.html

http://www.medela.com/NewFiles/thrush.html

http://www.breastfeedingonline.com/yeast.shtml

http://www.lalecheleague.org/llleaderweb/LV/LVOctNov98p91.html