"Judah asserts his male autonomy in the face of female manipulativism": or, "It's even harder out here if you refuse to be a pimp"

Sofi, screaming: Aaaah! He's drinking out of my water bottle with his germy flu mouth!!! Stooooop!! Moo-ooom!

Judah: No!

Me: Judah, you must ask your sister nicely if you want to use her water bottle.

Judah: Sofi, puhyiy use you wadah boddle?

Sofi: Ewww, noooo, that's gross, you have GERMS!! Noooo!!!

Me: Judah say 'may I please use your water bottle deeear sister?' You have to charm her.

Judah: Puhyiy use you waddah boddle deee sister?

Me: How can you resist that, Sofi?

Sofi: You have to charm me Judah, you have to make me feel sorry for you...

me: Judah, say 'I love you, dear sister, may I please use your water bottle?'

Judah, thinking about it: Ummm. No.